My Father Built Rock Walls

I know this because I collected the stones.

The one thing I know for certain: The experience taught me that rocks, like ideas, fit together when they’re supposed to. Not before, and not later.

I know this. I recall the endless pickup-truck-loads of stones and small boulders that I collected and placed into neat piles in front of the trenches from which his walls grew.

From there, one by one, the rocks, small, large, fractured, twisted, flat, round, bulbous, angular, metamorphic, granite, white, red, green, and black, all eventually grew into something so randomly symmetrical, defined, purposeful, and everlasting.

With each placement, each rock was assessed by its value and contribution to each space that came available. And often (always?) that meant that in the entire field of rock piles I assembled, there was most often only one that could and would accomplish the solution being sought. And then again, sometimes not, requiring another trip in the progressively pockmarked little red Ford pickup.

And yet, when each wall was complete, and the stone piles were exhausted to pebbles; each one of them, and finally each pebble too, found its place, in the exact spot and with the exact purpose that only it could fulfill.

Like ideas. Like plans. Like goals and accomplishments. Nothing is without purpose, meaning, and value. Nothing does not have its place. What did rocks teach me? Simple. Truth and meaning are realized when seemingly disparate things find the purposes inherent to each of them as parts of a greater and successful whole.

Ideas Need a Muse

And I guess that’s Choco! So a little introduction is in order.

Choco was a cross Golden Retriever and Weimaraner, playfully, or officially, or perhaps both, known as a Goldmaraner. He will forever remain amongst the best friends I have been fortunate to have in my life. I’m not sure if I deserved the unconditional love and dedication he demonstrated for pretty much every moment of his life. Nevertheless, I received it. That energy will inspire me forever. And so, Choco is my muse.

He was born on the 30th of November, 2007 and passed away of natural causes on September 21st, 2022.

What was he like? Well, the smile should say it all.

Revealing the Soul

Creation can mean making something that did not exist prior. It scan also mean revealing what always existed. This I think is a much better way to look at the journey we are all on together since it presumes our ideal all exists within what we are all elemental parts of, and together we will continue to chip away and reveal what has always rested in the potential in the effort, resources, skills, understandings, characters, views, of all of us, combined.